May 15, 2013


high school memory k-hole

remember in high school when half your friends were anarchist crust punks, and would hand you a bunch of hegel to “read” and then you’d all jam out to le tigre and walk around thinking you were so great?

i was trying to explain this precious section youth culture to my friend, via kathleen hanna videos, and stumbled on this awesome deceptacon fan vid:

i was also relaying my favorite high school quote, “art is dead, don’t consume its corpse,” and found this (buy it before i do):

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which THEN reminded me of situationist international. which then led me to everyone’s favorite quote-friendly essay: 

On the Poverty of Student Life Considered in its Economic, Political, Psychological, Sexual, and Especially Intellectual Aspects, with a Modest Proposal for Doing Away With It

which then reminded me of how cool i thought it was to start every college essay title with “On.”

:/

— JENNA


May 13, 2013


were you hip in 1996?

this quiz, taken from a 1996 issue of all about you magazine, will enlighten you:

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click-through to see the full-size version.

needless to say i still wear the “little miss hipster” crown.

((visit teen spirit library for our personal collection of 90’s stuff, archived on the internet.))

—GRACE 


May 10, 2013


some things don’t change: interpunk.com

if you grew up in a doldrums suburban town like i did, then you may know what it’s like to be starved for cool music and cool shows. one of my anthems as a teen was “p.s. the scene is dead” by the ataris:

do you know what it’s like
to live somewhere that sucks
and everyone tries to bring you down.
no place for you to go
and see a punk rock show.
you spend your whole life trying to get out.

back then, i discovered most of my music through message boards, label newsletters, alternative press magazine and word-of-mouth. but that was only good for collecting names. getting a listen was a different story. if you were lucky enough, you could borrow the album from a friend. but more often than not, you had no choice but to purchase the CD to get the full listen. 

visiting a record store seems a novelty experience for me and many others today, but back then it was as routine as going to church (i also come from a town where everyone goes to church).

still, i feel like i had to dig pretty hard to find the good indie albums and shell out upwards of $18 at the go-to indie record store (holla disc exchange!) nothing can replace the satisfactory feeling of taking a chance on a diamond in the rough uncovered after hours at the record store, but for those who didn’t have the time and energy, interpunk.com was a godsend. i hopped over to take a peek today and was delighted to see that it hasn’t changed one bit! (for web design junkies - interpunk still uses the same outdated table-based HTML layout as it did over ten years ago!)

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here is a larger version of the 2002 version if you’d like to reminisce. for the 2013 version just visit the site!

interpunk was one-stop access to all the latest releases in punk, hardcore, emo and indie. i only became familiar with “p.s. the scene is dead” because i’d taken a chance and purchased the entire ataris discography off interpunk. 

they also had buttons and tees! it was nice because cool bands rarely came through our town so we had to travel to larger neighboring cities to see bands and pick up merch - a rather difficult feat for suburban teens with curfews, lots of homework and part-time jobs that paid $5.50 per hour. with interpunk, we could at least acquire buttons and tees to show our love for our favorite bands.

a hometown friend of mine remembers, ”I once ordered a bunch of buttons to put on my messenger bag. Fugazi. Pedro the Lion. The Smiths. Stuff like that. I was then made fun of when I put them on my bag…but I didn’t care. I was all about the indie flare…You could look like you could afford to see all kinds of bands. Which I guess I understand people making fun of it, now. But then, I felt really cool.”

thank you interpunk for being there for us. thank you for still being there. thank you for not changing. you rule.

 

—GRACE

 


May 07, 2013


crush wall: 90’s luke perry

maybe we should stop crushing on guys of two decades past because that is an unattainable crush if i ever knew it, but man! fucking 90’s luke perry. known by many as dylan mckay.

dylan mckay

did y’all watch beverly hills, 90210? LE SIGH. i started the full series a while ago and have been steadily working my way through it. dylan mckay was the OG chuck bass, an inspiration to logan echolls, the overpriveleged but neglected boy living alone in a hotel room who just wants love from the leading lady - perhaps a type of manic pixie dream guy

of course, like any token brooding bad boy, he wastes two whole seasons melting our hearts with his relentless pursuit of the show’s token cold bitch, here’s looking at you, brenda!

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sadly, brenda is mostly an indecisive and negligent brat when it comes to dylan, but like any guy with a lot of feelings, dylan soon falls for brenda’s bff. i leave you with the steamy pool scene where dylan officially chooses kelly.

kelly: don’t do that if you don’t mean it!
dylan: i mean it 
kelly: well you’re in trouble now!

#dreamconversations

 

—GRACE


May 03, 2013


manic pixie dream guy - a playlist for the directionless guys of nyc (and the girls who love them)

my favorite kind of guy to crush on is the manic pixie dream guy. they are rampant in nyc. you know, the kind of guy who never responds to text messages, who has a faraway gaze in his eyes, who keeps you at enough arm’s length that you’re not really sure where he lives or how exactly he gets his income or what sorts of things he does on a daily basis - not to be confused with your weed dealer!

but seriously, sometimes i think my existence here is powered by this league of directionless single dudes in nyc. first you become too bored with things. then by some cosmic force a mysterious and attractive guy suddenly appears and practically coerces his presence into your life - and for a hot minute, he really turns things around! he is charming as sure as good-looking. and he finds a way to be both emotionally-driven and nonchalant. but then he vanishes as quickly as he appeared, leaving you to think “what the heck?”

i have pretty much crushed exclusively on mpdg’s since i knew how to crush. this playlist is a tale of unexpected attraction met with denial and coyness eventually leading to momentary salvation and imminent loss. it’s intoxicating! 

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01 something about you / terry malts
02 i don’t know what to say / the magnetic fields
03 weight / mikal cronin
04 i came all this way / the thrills
05 that’s that / cass mccombs
06 hellhole ratrace / girls
07 stay loose / belle & sebastian
08 my maudlin career / camera obscura
09 pretend you love me / sonny & the sunsets
10 scattered / ps i love you
11 that boy / the babies
12 teenage dream / t. rex
13 vampire smile / kyla la grange
14 cloud pleaser / harlem
15 the best thing / electric youth
16 common people / pulp
17 middle of the dark / lightspeed champion
18 some kinda angel / mojave 3
19 let’s get tired / someone still loves you boris yeltsin
20 never mind / big troubles
21 invisible man / the breeders

listen to ‘manic pixie dream guy’ on spotify >

 

—GRACE


March 29, 2013


punk summer

brokelyn has brought to light the cost of throwing a block party in brooklyn: an all-too-manageable $25.75. who knew! 

as i think about the endless possibilities of summer block partying, i am brought back to the happenings of approximately ten years ago, in the southern suburban town of my upbringing. the year was 2003 and i was a new-to-the-world 17-year-old. i had a friend - a ringleader - whose teenage raison d’être was to make a name for the doldrums that we were stuck in, with hopes that bands would then want to play in our town. to help make this happen, he created an online community, knox rejects. this was the mission statement:

As Black Flag said, we’re gonna Rise ABOVE. Reclaim this town, in the name of good music, and good times. No more cliques, no more drama. A place for everyone from every background to come have a good time, and where likeminded people can meet without having to worry about stupid people maliciously ganging up on them for having an opinion contrary to theirs. 

to kickoff knox rejects, he invited a bunch of bands to play in his mom’s backyard - as i recall, a ska band even drove down from cincinatti. he may have failed to get the permission of his mom, though, as when the mayhem broke out she definitely threatened to call the cops on us. 

to help out, i sharpie’d some flyers for the event and posted them all over my high school. we had a few “planning meetings” where i even wound up meeting my then-boyfriend (we connected over our self-awareness that we were suburban punx). hail yeah.

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i only managed to salvage one photo from the event. worth noting is the guy in the background - along with punk rock and teenagers came baggy pants, plaid, underage drinking, fighting and BLOOD.

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i had a great time! according to my livejournal update march 9, 2013:

man I had the best time ever. There were a TON of bands that played; it was like a K-town Warped Tour. I had an absolute blast…It was like one big party. There was even a bonfire and pretty fireworks. And some crazy punk dancing. It was nuts! And never before had I seen so many mohawks at one time…Shit it was so much fun and I wanna go back!

i’m letting “shit it was so much fun and i wanna go back” be MY mission statement for this summer.

punk summer 2013, y’all.

—GRACE


March 25, 2013


teen bedroom necessities, then & now

my teenage bedroom heyday happened around 1999-2000, when i really started to put effort into making my bedroom “me” and letting it be my sanctuary away from the cruel world of adolescence.

looking back, there was a total space-age, futuristic theme in the things i kept: lots of light-up stuff, bubbly inflatable furniture, jewel tone hands-free phone (yes, landline - didn’t have a cell phone til age 16!), a shelf stereo with progressively rounded edges. as for decor, i was a huge fan of posters that had pop-punk attitude. i imagine my bedroom probably resembled a late-90’s spencer gifts store. 

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inflatable chair | glow-in-the-dark stars | beaded curtain | happy bunny poster | ataris poster | magic lamp | hands-free phone5 CD shelf stereo 

seeing as to how i haven’t been a teen in a decade, i asked emma orlow to enlighten me on teen bedrooms of today. she is a teen right now and also co-runs the blog the do not enter diaries with fellow teen bff emily cohn, which explores teen bedrooms from all over the world, so naturally i find her to be a trusted expert on the topic. here are her choices:

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pendleton blanket | color change lava lamp | color-drip candles | disco ball lamp | ‘war is over’ poster | vanilla cupcake yankee candle | gnome table | pancake floor pillows | baby head candy dish

i’m happy to see a couple of mainstays - everyone had those disco balls back in my day! and lava lamps! who didn’t want a lava lamp! on that note, i think i’m going to order one of these

 

—grace


March 09, 2013


dirty girls

oh man, keli found a 17 minute gold mine of nostalgia!

i think this is where i was my whole sophomore through senior years of high school: “i’m not a dirty girl but i hang out with them because they’re more interesting than the preppies.” although for me, technically, hanging out with preppies wasn’t really on the table in the first place. they had cars and played soccer! and i didn’t have any abercrombie.

 

fav part———> amber: “the first day they were like, ‘that’s the girl who didn’t take a shower since kurt cobain died.’ and i mean, that would be a long time not taking a shower.”

 

around minute 11, is that a goth girl ripping on the riot grrrl?

 

and credit where credit’s due: the bitchy girls are wearing awesome outfits!

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-JENNA


March 04, 2013


shit we don’t miss: spring break edition!

we spend so much time romanticizing our teenage years that we start to overlook the things that we are glad are long gone. in shit we don’t miss we round up reasons to be thrilled that we aren’t in high school anymore. this week, we remember when the words SPRING BREAK meant something. 

happy march! back in high school, march meant spring break was right around the corner. in my town, spring break was when the entire school migrated to the florida panhandle (see also: “redneck riviera”) for a week of unsupervised mayhem. not going on this spring break sojourn was probably tantamount to three weeks of social suicide: you’d be the only person not branded with a post-spring break suntan and all anyone would want to talk about after spring break was what happened during spring break. total bullshit, right?

while we still support the essence of spring break - the synergies created by the sun & sand, the scantily clad and the congregation of unadulterated hormonal rage - we now have enough tenacity to write our own spring breaks. and rest assured it would involve none of the following blasts from the past:

toe rings and french pedicure

toe rings and french pedicures - i guess we wore a lot of open-toed shoes back then, from flip flops to birkenstock slides, hence the unabashed foot accessorizing. unaware that there wasn’t really anything glamorous or hygienic about making your toenails look unclipped, i definitely fell prey to this look if i knew i’d be exposing my feet at the beach all week long. and toe rings? sounds uncomfortable, looks horrific, turns toes green.

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tribal henna tattoos - you couldn’t go on spring break without getting a souvenir store tramp stamp to go with your bikini. this amazing photo that i found is pretty  accurate of the styles of the time (and it’s from a probably defunct angelfire website). henna tattoos could only be done in all-black, so the designs offered were pretty much limited to tribals, chinese characters, butterflies and a few janky handstyles. i remember mulling over a laminated binder of designs for a solid 30 minutes; the criteria used for narrowing down my tribal design of choice is unknown to me today.

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sarong skirts - the great thing about beach coverups is that they double as normal clothes if you have zero sense of style. but i guess surviving spring break meant wearing as many badges of honor as possible, including these tie-dye/batik print sarongs, often paired with solid v-neck tees and and flip flops.

harry t’s/fudpuckers - ah, the places to see and be seen. i had mentioned fudpuckers t-shirts in a previous edition of shit we don’t miss. you had to get one as proof that you were at one of the hottest places to be over spring break. if you’re unfamiliar, these establishments had similar vibes to that of a joe’s crab shack - large drinks, unremarkable food and “good times” branding (see visual below).

fudpuckers tee shirt

where did you spring break when you were in high school? send me your memories!

—GRACE


February 26, 2013


what were you like as a teenager?

so, rookie mag interviewed morrissey and asked him questions about what he was like as a teenager.

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this part alone is worthy of one full post:

RM: If you could tell your teenage self one thing, what would it be?

MOZ: I am still my teenage self. If you think that we all step through a door marked Adult, or that we sign a Grown-Up Document, you’re quite wrong. We remain as we always were, and that, alas, is one of life’s many nasty tricks. 


and with that, i ask: what were you like as a teenager?

more to come :-)

—GRACE


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